There a many moments in life when we feel that life or probably some friend betrayed us. Friends never, and no one who betray are not friends. I seriously have no clue to handle those people who pop up as friends and betray. I can be only be more careful, and in case still be betrayed move on. Of life i have only seen 29 years and 10 months of life till date,but I am very certain that life never does injustice to people who live it. I have many people or their lives to quote but that again would be injustice as we would not be certain about the agony of them. We always get our dues from life. The commitment the trust we have in a relationship, everything get to be paid back somewhere may be not from where we expect it. The reason is very simple, you were not bestowed your due, but you learnt something from that relationship. Now that you know how people betrayed you. I am sure there are n number of ways to betray. But you know one. So your chances of betrayed are less. Move on, Make Friends, Live Life. I Know i appear too optimistic here but the only other way is to be pessimistic.
“Let us give chance to life, before we let it down.”
(The inspiration to write this article is owed to person who related with me for three months and left.)
9 comments:
that was really nice... but what happened.... wat made you write this.. :o
You are right. One cannot/should not stop when he/she being betrayed. A betrayer is the one who takes his/her counterpart for granted and upto me he/she is a person who commands no respect for the basics of a relationship. One needs to be mentally strong to handle betrayals. Everyone meets such people in life maybe in different ways but fate/fact of life is that you should meet one. To take it positive one should think that, he/she being saved before things go worse.
KARTHICK! ASK A FEW QNS TO URSELF WHAT EXACTLY U CALL A BETRAYAL IN A RELATIONSHIP? WHEN EXPECTATIONS FAILS IS IT? A STRONG & A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER HAVE DEMANDS, EXPECTATIONS....
WHERE IS THE QN OF U HOLDING UR "DIGNITY" IN UR RELATIONSHIP WHEN U MAKE IT A DISCUSSION POINT IN UR BLOG INDIRECTLY SPECIFING THINGS.. IMAGINE IF THINGS GET EVEN WORSE HOW WOULD U REACT??? HERE WHO IS BETRAYING WHOM? WHO IS SPOILING THE GENUINITY IN A RELATIONSHIP? DO U WANNA A PUBLIC FOCUS 2 B PITIED AT U FOR UR PERSONAL DISSAPPOINTMENTS? U R IRRELEVANT 2 WHAT U HAD SCRIBBLED IN UR BLOG AS A PERSON .MY PERSONAL COMMENT IS U SCRIBBLE LIKE U R HIGHLY OPTIMISTIC PERSON BUT U R NOT. LEARN 2 HANDLE THINGS IN A BETTER WAY. U HAD NOT ONLY MADE UR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE A DISCUSSION U HAD ALSO PUT DOWN THE TRUST WHICH SUMONE HOLDED ON YOU.
TO
Mr/Ms Anonymous whoever you are
Hey i could scrap this entry though i would not cos the reply indicates what i stand to prove,
what i have posted. I have no reason or cause to explain myself to an anonymous response. Someone
who isn't interested revealing their identity should never preach. As mentioned in the title of the blog
this is “My Expression” and i am free to voice and reflect on things the way i want it to be. Look who is talking about dignity,spoiling genunity in a relationship, and most funny of all about trust. These are demanded of a person of integrity alas this is a from an anonymous person how could we expect it!!!!.I would have appreciated if this blog would not have been from an anonymous sender. BEFORE SAYING OTHERS TO HANDLE THINGS BETTER LET U HANDLE IT BETTER. Better practice then preach.
Guys please!!! The Golden Rule is " Love thy who loves you, not the one you Luv". That way expectations will be low and you will not get hurt. Anyways " Its better to have loved and LOST than NEVER to have LOVED at all!!!!!"
Look forward in life thats the point. Probably there is someone out there who needs you more!!!!
Love the people who hate you,
for you are the center of their world.
hey thanks for the comment enigma81. Thanks for reinstating what i have already said,
“The commitment the trust we have in a relationship, everything get to be paid back somewhere may be not from where we expect it. The reason is very simple, you were not bestowed your due, but you learnt something from that relationship”.
I have said im optimistic and that is what u too have said 'that look forward'. Afterall life never stops for people without intergrity or values. It is just that u carry them as ur exprience. I would like to point that u have taken it different levels of love though my post is on experience of being a friend. Anyway, like you have given a few quotes here goes mine. Hope this drives sense.
We always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love - first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage - Albert Camus
Dont expect anything from anyone.. period. Whats wrong with you man??? friend or love does'nt stand on the foundation of wants, its on trust. You keep telling that you have not got your due from someone??? Why?? Are you a money lender or something that you should expect something in return!!! YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED TO DIE IN LOVE OR FRIENDSHIP and not expect anything in return.
If are not ready for that then my friend you have not Loved at all.tcr
Dont expect anything from anyone.. period. Whats wrong with you man??? friend or love does'nt stand on the foundation of wants, its on trust. You keep telling that you have not got your due from someone??? Why?? Are you a money lender or something that you should expect something in return!!! YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED TO DIE IN LOVE OR FRIENDSHIP and not expect anything in return.
If are not ready for that then my friend you have not Loved at all.tcr
Hey enigma 81 i seriously dont understand your comment, pl go read the the article again and find for yourself how irrelevant you comment is. I would not appericate someone trying to crap and coverup issues cos that's the last thing my blog would carry. You are entitled to write anything that u feel like cos that your freedom to express but rememeber as long as it carries sense i would appericiate it. when i see your comment im reminded of a quote
"wise men talk because they have something to say; fools talk because they have to say something".
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